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Todd French 
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(9/11/00 6:15:02 pm)
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Private email - withheld names
Just wondering - why do some of the board community choose to keep an email address private or "code" their user ID so the rest of us do not know who they are? To me, in a friendly forum of fellow cellists such as this, I would assume it better to leave your name and email address - full disclosure, don't you think?

Any thoughts?

Laura Wichers
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(9/11/00 6:50:24 pm)
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I'll always keep my name/email 'fully disclosed', but I have noticed that I seem to get quite a bit of music-related spam. I think there are some companies/individuals who find this board, copy the emails, and throw them on a mailing list. I have gotten some interesting stuff from this, and really it's not much of an irritant, but it may be a reason some choose to stay anonymous.


-Laura

lblake 
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(9/11/00 10:19:27 pm)
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I removed my e-mail address because when I put it here, I suddenly started receiving junk e-mail to that address. Also, I believe I've heard (and absolutely believe it possible) that there are actually programs out there that will go out and search the internet for e-mail addresses and then use them for spam. I assume that's what's happened to me.

And, about my name, while I'm not very good at keeping personal details to a minimum, I do usually have it in the back of my head. If, suppose, someone were stalking me, and they were inclined to guess where I might post messages on the internet - everything I write here is archived, right? So, anything I reveal about myself could easily be discovered here by a potentially undesirable party.

Am I paranoid? Oh, yes, probably quite. Do I have reason to be? Oh, yes, absolutely. (no need to go into that here, though.)

So, that's why, Todd. It's not because of you guys. It's just because it's a scary world out there, and certain measures make some of us feel more secure, or in the matter of spam - some measures save us some time (in deleting junk mail!!!).

Edited by lblake  at: 9/11/00 10:19:27 pm

Joe S
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(9/11/00 11:37:36 pm)
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In my case, there are others that use the same address who do not want it broadcasted.

ruthann
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(9/12/00 11:43:57 am)
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How interesting!

My e-mail is "private" because ezboard wouldn't let me change it. I do publish my address at the end of each post so that I am readily available for private comment. Interestingly enough, I don't get unsolicited e-mail at that address.

I use my own name, I guess because I'm not afraid of being associated with the opinions I express here. Boy, didn't that sound pompous! I figure that if anyone from my small town, or the festival orchestra cello section I regularly participate in were to log on here, they would know who I am without seeing my name. So I try to bite my tongue when tempted to vent some of my nastier thoughts. I try not to say anything here that I wouldn't say to someone's face. But I am pretty bold about what I'd say to someone's face!!!

Hmm, now I'm off the subject, sort of.

cello_suttonr@hotmail.com

matthias24 
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(9/12/00 9:38:37 pm)
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I'm not sure if my email is public or not. Might be a good thing to know.

As for why I don't use my real name for my User Name, is simply because I like "Matthias" more than I like "Aaron." There is an abundance of Aaron's in this world, and not too many Matthias's and I enjoy being unconventional. (sometimes. other times, tradition is best.)Although, "Matthias" is more plausible to be my actual name than some other people's user names.
Plus, if my parents had any imagination at all, my name would be different. The story is that they opened the book of baby names to the first page, and "Aaron" being the first name they saw, they stopped the search and settled on that. :)

~ Aaron ~

cellochris99
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(9/12/00 10:42:55 pm)
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Actually, I would like to know how to put my information on the ez-board profile. I don't know why it's all blank.

Todd French 
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(9/13/00 12:58:48 am)
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How about 42, OyOy, Flyer23, etc?
Who are these mysterious code-named folk of the board...?

inta stella
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(9/13/00 4:03:53 am)
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i, too, would like to doctor my ez-board profile,
though i am not a seriously-mysterious code-named person, but have NO IDEA how to do so. tips? please?

JanJan 
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(9/13/00 6:28:05 am)
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Re: Here's how
When you close this post, look above the threads for "My Control Center" - it'll be on the left. Click on that, enter your password, and then click on "Edit Preferences." Then have fun changing whatever you want.

42
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(9/13/00 2:38:28 pm)
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well....
I don't really have a good reason... i'm just not a very public person..... I do however always sign my real name to my e-mails(and my address is public).
---42...aka Michael Corman :)

inta stella 
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(9/13/00 4:57:28 pm)
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thanks for the tech tip, JanJan...
you're a doll!

lblake 
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(9/13/00 6:56:50 pm)
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Re: How about 42, OyOy, Flyer23, etc?
Hmmm.... seems like you might have better luck getting answers to those great mysteries (and more answers on the other questions) if you re-posted this on the main cello chat board. Just a thought. ;)

Todd French 
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(9/13/00 6:56:59 pm)
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changing your icon...
intela stella,

You might want to change your icon - the size needs to be a tiny 10 X 10 pixels, otherwise it will show as a broken image as yours has. It's tough to fit anything into such a small space, but give it a try!

MaryK 
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(9/13/00 8:39:38 pm)
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I can see your point, Todd, but, who's to say someone calling herself "Jane Doe" really is named Jane Doe, and that any bio/other info she shares w/us is true? In a way I like seeing what kind of creative nom de plumes people can come up with on the boards. I don't use my given And surname because there are too many nuts out there who can find out too much stuff about you with only a little info to go on. And you figure, unless we meet others from the board in carbon space, we'll never really "know" each other anyway, so it just seems to make the "real name" thing less important. Shrug. :)

Cheers,
MaryK

WhataDaryl
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(9/26/00 6:36:41 am)
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Hey Todd,
I guess most people look at these public forums as you would look at a public swap meet. You don't walk up to a stranger, talk to them for ten minutes and then say, "Oh hey, next time you're in town, come by my house...its 1313 Mockingbird Lane." They say on the internet, only disclose what you feel comfortable with a stranger knowing. I myself am not too worried about a stranger hassling me or spamming me (the delete checked button works great and I'm a certified peace officer, so I'm covered on both fronts :) ). But I guess we should all remember that while we are all cello fans, how well do we REALLY know anyone?
Daryl

Todd French 
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(9/26/00 9:32:34 am)
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What about names?
Ok, so I can understand why some don't want to give out email addresses, although I have no problem with it personally. What I wonder is why the mysterious "code names" in lieu of real names or portions of real names (i.e. Joe S). I've specified a few of them, like OyOy, Flyer23, and 42, and heard only from 42. Is there a privacy issue I'm not getting here? To me, again, it would be nice to know who it is all of us is chatting with on the board, and since the music world is quite small, there is always a chance we might run into each other somewhere down the line.

MaryK 
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(9/26/00 2:50:41 pm)
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Re: What about names?
"Is there a privacy issue I'm not getting here?"

Yup, I think so, Todd. Besides, who's to know if you're really named Todd French?? (I don't doubt you are, BTW.) <VBG>

Cheers,
MaryK

Edited by: MaryK  at: 9/26/00 2:50:41 pm

lblake 
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(9/26/00 2:42:59 pm)
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Re: What about names?
Well, I only have my partial name, although my real whole name has been mentioned on this board before (not by me, though). Still, I do try to avoid giving it, because I am a girl, and I've always been taught that we girls have to be especially cautious. I do have fierce, beastly dogs to protect me, but still.... Perhaps more of us are girls than you think?

Another guess I would have is that some people might want to vent through an alter-ego, and this really isn't an inappropriate place to do it, I suppose. MaryK has a point: how do we really know that your name is even Todd French? (personally, I believe it is, but I couldn't produce concrete evidence of it right now. ;) )

Oh, and the other reason I would guess is just because it's fun, and clever, and yet another way to be creative. And after all, the trend in user-ID's (at least in my experience) has never really been to use your real whole name, as spaces aren't "allowed" in many types of software. So when starting up here, many people might use the same ID's they use somewhere else.

Hey - and isn't "42" the answer to life, the universe, and everything?

Edited by: lblake  at: 9/26/00 2:42:59 pm

Todd French 
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(9/26/00 5:50:37 pm)
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Re: What about names?
lblake,

Let me guess - either you have two ferocious dogs, or you have two dogs that think they are ferocious...

We have two dogs as well, both sound ferocious with their barking, and one could actually easily take down a grown man, but she doesn't know that so I won't be telling her! Neither would know what to do if they actually had to defend us, but at least they can scare the violators away with a good fierce bark!!

On a similar note - I think dogs are the very best form of "burglar" protection for instruments (and everything else for that matter). Alarms can be easily disabled, and locks are nothing to a skilled burglar, but most don't want to mess with a dog - just in case.

WhataDaryl
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(9/27/00 6:10:57 am)
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Re: What about names?
Hey Todd,
I will admit, a dog is a better security guard than a cat. My loving feline would hide first if given the chance in the face of an armed intruder. Her other alternative would be to help them load up my valuables.
I have to agree with the others on the sense of names. I remember earlier this summer, a man was killed because he thought he was meeting a woman. Instead, he scheduled his own robbery and death. It was a man pretending to be a woman. On the internet (or with my ISP; the infernalnet), you can be whoever/whatever you want.
Daryl
PS. My screen name isn't sexual; at the time I created my Yahoo account, I was working nights at a Whataburger to pay my way through the police academy. ;)


          New Private email - withheld names-Todd French  -(25)-9/11/00 6:15:02 pm  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-Sorefingers 9/27/00 2:55:49 pm  
               New What about names?-Todd French  9/26/00 9:32:34 am  
                    New Re: What about names?-lblake  9/26/00 2:42:59 pm  
                         New Re: What about names?-Todd French  9/26/00 5:50:37 pm  
                              New Re: What about names?-WhataDaryl 9/27/00 6:10:57 am  
                                   New Re: What about home security?-MaryK  9/27/00 11:28:40 am  
                                        New Re: What about home security?-Todd French  9/27/00 12:46:39 pm  
                                             New Re: What about home security?-lblake  9/27/00 9:58:09 pm  
                                                  New Names-MaryK  9/27/00 10:08:52 pm  
                    New Re: What about names?-MaryK  9/26/00 2:50:41 pm  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-WhataDaryl 9/26/00 6:36:41 am  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-MaryK  9/13/00 8:39:38 pm  
               New thanks for the tech tip, JanJan...-inta stella  9/13/00 4:57:28 pm  
                    New changing your icon...-Todd French  9/13/00 6:56:59 pm  
               New How about 42, OyOy, Flyer23, etc?-Todd French  9/13/00 12:58:48 am  
                    New Re: How about 42, OyOy, Flyer23, etc?-lblake  9/13/00 6:56:50 pm  
                    New well....-42 9/13/00 2:38:28 pm  
                    New i, too, would like to doctor my ez-board profile,-inta stella 9/13/00 4:03:53 am  
                         New Re: Here's how-JanJan  9/13/00 6:28:05 am  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-cellochris99 9/12/00 10:42:55 pm  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-matthias24  9/12/00 9:38:37 pm  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-ruthann 9/12/00 11:43:57 am  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-Joe S 9/11/00 11:37:36 pm  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-lblake  9/11/00 10:19:27 pm  
               New Re: Private email - withheld names-Laura Wichers 9/11/00 6:50:24 pm  
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